There are tips that you can find on picking up women that will give you a little bit of success here and there, but if you are like me, you aren't interested in a little bit of success here and there. You want more than that. You want to be able to pick up women easily and have it feel like it isn't that big of a deal. It really doesn't have to be that big of a deal and picking up women doesn't have to be that hard or that intimidating.
Here are some tips for picking up women that work quite well:
1. It's always easier to make a good impression when you are smiling and looking cheerful.
I always find it funny when guys put on that serious "game face" when they approach a woman out in a club or in a bar. It's funny because that is one of the worst things that you can do. Most guys game faces end up looking either intimidating or corny. Neither one is a good impression to make when you are approaching a woman. On the other hand, you really cannot go wrong when you look cheerful and you are smiling. When you look like that, you look like a guy a woman wants to get to know.
2. When you try to connect with a woman instead of pick her up, you'll see much better results.
It's a simple and yet, profound truth that connecting with a woman is the way to go if you want to end up getting her to give you her number, getting her to go on a date with you, etc. The way that you go about connecting with a woman is key. You want to make her feel like she is really getting to know a guy who is rare, a guy that she isn't used to coming across and if you can make that kind of connection with a woman... it is easy to get a date or get a phone number.
3. It's always going to be part strategy and part luck.
You can't win them all and you really can't expect that every woman you approach is going to be impressed by you or feel an immediate sense of attraction towards you. That's okay. Becoming good at picking up women is always going to be about both your strategy and your luck that you have. You might approach a woman who is having a bad day and anything that you do is going to rub her the wrong way. Expect that luck will play a role in it and don't get disappointed when you get shot down every now and again. It happens and it doesn't matter that much because there are LOTS of single women out there that you can meet.
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